See these tips for being an involved and supportive parent:

• DO Share in your student’s enthusiasm and excitement.
• DO Expect homesickness (if your student lives on campus) and times when college life seems overwhelming.
• DO Encourage your student to accept responsibility and become her own problem-solver.
• DO Expect change and give her space to grow.
• DO Listen, write, call, and send care packages – discuss what would work best in keeping the communication lines open.
• DO Find new interests to help you let go.
• DO Encourage your student to get involved on campus and to participate in weekend programs, traditions and events.
• DON’T rush to the rescue. Encourage and support, but let her handle concerns and issues. If she needs additional support, remind her of on-campus resources and offices available to her.
• DON’T Encourage coming home often.  Students make smoother transitions and are happier if they stay on campus long enough to make friends and get involved.
• DON’T Expect many letters or phone calls.  Sometimes students get caught up in a whirlwind of activity and forget to stay in touch.
• DON’T be surprised if she changes her mind on her major and career interests.